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Hrrrmmmmmm for some couples this kind of relationship would be ok, even acceptable or the norm. For the two of you I don't think it is healthy and I think your gf is putting you in a position of her controlling you, not the other way around. She is telling you what you should be comfortable with without recognizing the reality. Personally I believe that any relationship that begins with one or the other having cheated is doomed for failure as is but maybe the two of you are an exception. I don't think it is unreasonable for you to request she stop hanging out with this guy. It is up to you to stand your ground, establish what it is exactly you will put up with from her, and stick by your decision or find a new GF who thinks that you are all the man she needs.
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