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For me, no secrets. There is always a time and a place but if you can't begin a relationship with total honesty (both parties, not just one!), it's not a good foundation.
I think it's a given that couples get to know one another over time, so any "secrets" should be disclosed at an appropriate time in the getting-to-know-you process.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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