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would be good if you could give us your opinion on the subject also?
Through my own experience, there are certain things that are best kept to yourself. You can always partially disclose them, but if you disclose fully, you run the risk of it coming back to bite you at a later date, if you break-up, or are having an argument, or things aren't going well. People can be quite cruel when they're angry - don't give them fuel is what I say. If ti's not going to improve your relationship or isn't relevant, why expose yourself that way?
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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