I just stumbled across this slightly lapsed thread and just thought I'd comment on the being sexual thing... as a guy who always used to stumble into friend-zone, I was told that you should always indicate some kind of sexual interest fairly early. This doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have sex with them, purely that your interest is not purely platonic... in my case I accomplish that by flirting where I would previously have been cordial. From your description I'm guessing that these guys were a lot more forward than I am though.
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