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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Where there is (romantic) love there is sex with love.
Where there is not, there is not.
Seems kind of silly to insist it is one or the other.
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I agree with this. Most of the sexually-active females I know (including myself) are fully capable of enjoying sex without love. Some girls will make a big deal about "making love" and "the greatest form of intimacy" when they've fallen for the guy.. but these are the same girls who will enjoy a raw, rough fuck from the same man when they're just in the "he's attractive in many ways" stage.
But, as you previously mentioned, chemistry does need to be there (for me, anyway). I won't have sex with someone who doesn't turn me on, and I certainly won't have sex with someone who isn't fun to make out with or goof off with. Seriously, if you don't have a sense of humor and can't make me smile, you're not getting in! Sex should be fun AND can be funny.. attaching an extremely high level of seriousness to it can sometimes ruin the experience, especially if the two people who are naked together are not in love and are using protection.