If you are looking for a gentle, slow and erotic lovemaking session most of the suggestions are fine. If you like it hard and rough.. most of those "dont's" are "do's." I like a bit more adventure then some but to follow all that would bore me to bits.
... and Crompsin
Will, I don't think, "UHHN! How ya like that, betch!?" counts.)
Sometimes it does... sometimes it is exactly what is needed.