Assumption: There are more females than males, therefore females should work harder to get males.
Reality: Our hardwiring is the opposite of this. Females choose the mate in humans more often than not. This is not to say that females do not feel sexual or emotional attraction, or that they don't pursue males, but in the end more often than not it is simply reality that the woman decides if the pairing is permanent or that sexual relations are going to happen.
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