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Well you were not hitting her cervex. You actually were feeling her clit. Yes it is about 1-2 inches more or less depending on her body. While it is good to massage this area if you do it for to long and if she is a virgin then you can make her sore. So go gently. The most erotic and arousing thing you can do is rub the labia. Use a gentle swirling motion, but don't insert your finger. It will drive her crazy.
Every girl has a different way that she likes to be touched and each will respond differently to your touch. I know this is common sense but make sure your fingernails are clipped short and do her a favor use a file and take the rough edges of your nails down, you don't want to scratch her and make it an experience that she will not want to do again. You can listen to everyone, but the best thing to do is find out what she likes and what really makes her hot!! Don't be afraid to ask her, some guys think that because the girl never says anything that they are doing the right thing. But she may want you to rub higher, lower, etc and this way she will want to respond to you in the same way. It is my experience that I have found this out and I hope it will help you as well.
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