Jenna

I would have a hard time getting into a relationship with someone who has AIDS/HIV or Herpes, any non curable STI. A really hard time... I actually don't think I could. I would hope the person would be honest with me before the start of the relationship.

If I was with someone, and they found out they had herpes (or any other STI that is non detectable until break-outs), that would be a different story. For instance, if I found out that my boyfriend as of now, who I've been dating for 3 years, has herpes, I'd be infected as well. I would stay with him.

We've both been tested on more than one occasion, but hypothetically.

I'm still young and before I didn't even think of these things. I'm very lucky to be STI free... I asked my guy now to get tested when we first started dating, but it took him awhile too. I would be VERY upset if he had waited and actually had AIDS/HIV, etc. But then again, it would be my fault for letting it go on without demanding such a thing.