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Originally Posted by james t kirk
I'm kinda funny that way. If I don't make my partner orgasm, I'm quite distressed. I need to know that a) she's turned on, and b) that my abilities are such that she can orgasm.
I actually find it very thrilling to make a woman cum. It's quite exciting actually. Some women really raise the roof to the point you think that the neighbours are going to call the cops. (Something I also enjoy - sex with the windows open. Just a bit of fun I suppose.)
I find it so 1960's if I hear a woman complain that her man just blows his load, rolls over and goes to sleep.
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Well see, I kind of see that as the same thing as looking for chemistry. You want someone to disappear with for a while, not just stick your dick in a hole and cum, to put it delicately, lol.
Some men care about this with a one night stand, as you have shown, but I will guarantee you a lot of them don't. And this is probably why women have the reputation of holding out 'for love.' That was probably true 50 years ago, but these days I suspect they're holding out for someone whom they're pretty sure they're going to have a good time with.