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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Well, I think it simply comes down to the fact that men are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm, whereas women have to be reasonably sure that a man is going to meet her halfway...therefore that 'foreshadowing' of good chemistry (for example, 'the way he's looking at me makes me want to stick my hand down his trousers right here in the restaurant') is important.
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I'm kinda funny that way. If I don't make my partner orgasm, I'm quite distressed. I need to know that a) she's turned on, and b) that my abilities are such that she can orgasm.
I actually find it very thrilling to make a woman cum. It's quite exciting actually. Some women really raise the roof to the point you think that the neighbours are going to call the cops. (Something I also enjoy - sex with the windows open. Just a bit of fun I suppose.)
I find it so 1960's if I hear a woman complain that her man just blows his load, rolls over and goes to sleep.