You will never find more psychobabble then in the area of sex.
Its amazing just how wrong most psychologists and psychiatrists have been wrong on the subject, and those wrong ideas do take hold in the public imagination.
Invading penises?
The concept sounds best if told in a fake German accent...
'Ze male is the aggressor, the invader, into ze female, who becomes subjugated by his penis, and surrenders to it.'
There are strong biological reasons why women are more 'picky' with mates than men, that is part of it, but the concept that women have a hard time separating sex from love is more wishful thinking and guilt. Either that or a lot of women have loved me after briefly meeting me, and while I know I'm a great guy, I don't think I'm quite THAT great (well maybe).
Women do tend to seem to feel more 'guilty' over enjoying sex and that is cultural, so by throwing in the love aspect, for a lot I think that makes them feel better about it.
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