I think most people can separate sex from love until they fall in love.
Just because men may (and sometimes may not) have more sex outside of a love relationship, doesn't mean they separate the two more easily. In fact, I've found that many men get extraordinarily wrapped up in the 'sex = love' dynamic when they are in love.
Besides, I don't think sex is about love for women so much as it is chemistry.
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