Listen to Seaver.
The Kama Sutra did not have very many suggestions about enjoyable sex. It did, however, have an entire chapter on how to brow beat and guilt a virgin into sleeping with you.
Taoism teaches some very interesting techniques. Now, some of it can be a bit taxing so don't go too far into those without doing some careful reading and talking to your SO. You can find some simpler texts on Taoism in regards to sex and couples on amazon. If it's the author I'm thinking of, look up Jolan Chang.
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