First off, you are doing it wrong.
My wife is now a stay at home mom 'aka' house wife.
She does most of the housework, she shovels the snow, she used to mow the lawn (service now), she takes out the garbage (I take in the empty cans), she takes care of the kids about 85% of the time.
The home is now her 'job' I help out, but only when she can't keep up or has other things going on. If she were still working it would be very different, but shes not so it isn't.
I am the protector but I'm 90lbs heavier, stronger, and more prone to needed violence by the nature of being male.
And thats the key, the nature of being male. As a male being strong protectors and providers is what women find attractive. We have VERY little investment in sex historically, unlike a woman who gets pregnant, so we try to convince them to give it up. Now maybe this doesn't translate in the age of birth control and paternity law suits well, but you dont' erase 4 billion years of evolution in the course of a couple of generations.
This is why a semi-attractive female can walk into a bar and find someone to have sex with that night without much effort, while a semi-attractive male is normally left sucking his beer.
Its like this in just about all species for a reason. Just be glad you are human, in many mammals if you are not the head male you wouldn't be getting any from anyone.
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