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Originally Posted by savmesom11
I am in your boat, never do I fantisize about men, only women, and sometimes more than one at a time. I can't even enjoy porn that isn't girl on girl. My guy seems a tad concerned that one day I will "switch sides" on him but for me it is purely a fantasy that does not need to become reality. I am almost certain reality could never compare to my visuals. Woman are beautiful, sensual, sexy, etc. So why not appreciate them?
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Yes, lately I have been venturing into the multiple-women fantasies... and that gets me going quite a bit (especially if everyone has strap-ons). I do like hard-core hetero porn, but usually only the in-and-out close-ups. I don't really want to see men and women making out, kissing, etc... but when 2+ girls are doing that onscreen and it looks real, I am all into that.
I've asked my husband if it bothers him that I fantasize about other women so much, but he's just totally normal about it. He is the one who has taught me that fantasies can be just fantasies, so he's glad that I'm simply exploring that side of myself, mentally. He knows that if there was an opportunity, I would like to experiment with a woman, but we're pretty respectful of the reality of that situation and it would only happen if we were both 100% comfortable with it.