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Originally Posted by abaya
I know I already responded to this thread, but 10 months later, I'm just going to add that I almost exclusively think about females (usually with strap-ons!) when my husband is going down on me... and this is totally normal for us. He and I have talked about it, and he feels absolutely no discomfort with this at all, which makes me feel very loved and affirmed. 
We both fantasize a lot more when we're going down on each other, for whatever reason... so for me, that's when my bi-curiosity kicks in. I very rarely fantasize about men... just women doing me with strap-ons!  What does that mean? I don't really know, and don't really care... as long as it gets me off.  |
I am in your boat, never do I fantisize about men, only women, and sometimes more than one at a time. I can't even enjoy porn that isn't girl on girl. My guy seems a tad concerned that one day I will "switch sides" on him but for me it is purely a fantasy that does not need to become reality. I am almost certain reality could never compare to my visuals. Woman are beautiful, sensual, sexy, etc. So why not appreciate them?