Paying is relative I guess. Honestly every woman I've slept with has put out before any substantial gifts were given, every single one. So you could say that perhaps they were trying to 'invest' but I don't think thats the case. My wife had to put up with 10 years of relative poverty while I was in school and money was never her motivation, she could have had far more 'sure things' while waiting a decade for me to get going if that were the case.
Perhaps its because I truly treated women as an equal partnership in a relationship as in they equally want to get laid and equally want to be with me, and if they want me to like them for who they are then they better like me for who I am and not what I can give them.
I have damn close to a perfect marriage, I feel sorry for you guys who have had crappy luck with women in that regard.
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