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Originally Posted by ritzy
why dont you just both forget the pressures of orgasms the more you both try desperately to achieve this the more you'll both fuck it up
go back to basics, touching, kissing, try a massage etc with no attempts at orgasm for either of you for a while, it will take the pressure off you both to perform and you never know with less stress and more relaxation hopefully it will happen naturally
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Agreed! Feeling pressure to do this... trying to make it a goal makes it so much more difficult.
Lubrication is key.. also, when she starts to get really excited, don't make the mistake of rubbing harder/faster unless that is what she asks for. It can be an orgasm killer if she is really sensitive.