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I'd say a woman's cleavage, when "dressed" right, can be quite beautiful.
If it's on show, even if not overtly, and is attractive, I'd say it's natural to look.
I think if men look ,and it's on show, it's quite flattering. If that's all they look at, all the time, then it can become upsetting because you want to think there's other things about you of interest! Of course, guys are so visual that they find it hard to stop looking.
Blatant staring, for a long period of time, is creepy. Eek stalker.
I am not offended by men looking, if it's not exaggerated. If I'm wearing a low-cut top, then I'm probably looking for that attention. But that's just me.
I don't usually wear that sort of clothing to work, because that is one place where I generally don't want and in fact dislike that kind of "sexual" attention.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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