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Well, different people would have different opinions. I was talking a friend of mine after he just got back from visiting the Folsom Street Fair in San Fransisco (lucky bastidge) and he said it was the best few days of his life. It's always been a dream of mine to go there.
My personal experiences with bondage have been very few. I always thought it was very hot to see that my girlfriend had enough trust to let me tier her up and do whatever I wished to her; the only problem is getting enough free time with one another and getting the place to ourselves so we can really go nuts, as it were. Usually I tie her up and break out the nine-tails, since she's a bit of a fan of pain. I can also drag her to the tub and splash cold and hot water on her, depending on how I feel. It's really a head rush to know that someone's completley trusting you. It took a long time for the trust in our relationship to build up to the point where she was okay with me tying her up. To this day she has never regretted it and it is always my pleasure to tie her up.
Remember that not everyone is into bondage. I know quite a few people that are disgusted by it. When I tried to talk to a friend of mine about he deftly changed the subject. It made him really uncomfortable to even talk about it, much less approach the thought with any sort of open-mindedness, so I didnt really push the subject. (Okay, maybe a little, but his reaction was worth it.) That being said, some people cant go one sexual encounter without a cat-of-nine-tails in the same room.
As for myself? I can take it or leave it. It does not give me any physical pleasure to tie her up, but I know she loves it, so it makes me happy to know that she gets pleasure from the act. Plus, it makes her hotter, and who am I to argue with the facts?
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E fuhtan ruf syho baubma femm ihtancdyht drec saccyka?
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