I hate to be so forward with this, but what you did is what makes people hate their job and wake up in the morning and automatically have a bad day when they realize they exist and have to go to work........
If I were her, there is nothing you could ever say that would fix what you did - you are fucked. You need help if you would say that to someone else over something job-related. You don't fuck with people over something like urgent documents........
I would try to tell her in person, but if you can't get that together, write her a hand-written note explaining that you aren't an asshole, that you don't normally do that stuff, that she didn't deserve it, and that you understand if she doesn't want to associate herself with you ever again - and that no matter what, you DO NOT EXPECT FORGIVENESS
There is just no reason to talk to someone like that, and for that reason, you are basically fucked. This goes back to something one of our veteran posters/admins had in his profile: I don't care who you are/what you look like/where you are from, you're either an asshole or you're not. And to this girl you will ALWAYS be an asshole from here on out, no matter what you say or do to make it up. Sorry man!
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Off the record, on the q.t., and very hush-hush.
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