Quote:
|
Originally Posted by Issmmm
Thanks T, I'm OK though. It's just a burning question that pops up every now and again. He IS my son genitics or not.
The thing I have a problem with is, what if the situation underwhich he finds out (if it's true) is dire or hurtful for him or his brother?
Me? I'm OK, we've been divorced over ten years now so I'm somewhat indifferent towards her.
|
Unless you do genetic testing, how would he 'find out' from anyone else? It's not like you weren't having sex with your wife, right? I assume if that's the case you would be smart enough to put together that 1+0=/=2 at the time of the pregnancy.
Since I assume it didn't take you 22 years to realize 'oh shit, I wasn't boning her nine months before the baby!' then I've gotta say...without you doing genetic testing, there's no way anyone can 'find out' anything. Whether she slept with someone else or not, there's still a significant chance he's yours, so why not just roll with it?
