is this about him being your son, or you being pissed that some crazy chick may have cheated on you 22 years ago?
it sounds like you've already been through the worst of it. if i read it correctly, she is now your ex, so that's "taken care of." if you raised the kid, and he has called you dad for the last 22 years, then you are his father. it don't matter if he came from an alien abduction, the feelings between you and him are all that matter.
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onward to mayhem!
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