If you can forgive your woman, you can forgive the child. If you can't forgive her then you might just as well pack up and leave.
"Cheating" is not something that goes away. It either continues or it lingers but it never goes away. Accept it and carry on or move out and start all over again wiser than you were.
There are standard reasons why you should pack up and leave but there are just as many standard reasons why you should stay. It's up to you how you deal with it but the most important thing is how your relationship is with your woman today - not yesterday.
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Originally Posted by filtherton
...... people who can't own up to their mistakes or can't learn from them are very rarely "helpable".
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That's probably the wisest rule to remember.