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@OP- Is your girlfriend in love with you? That can make a huge difference between her enjoying your touch and her not being able to think when you touch her. Like others have said, let her figure it out, and you'll figure things out in the mean time. Openness about it may seem straining/embarrassing but done tactfully it will not interfere with the relationship.
First serious girlfriend of mine was like this---was not in love with me. She was still hung up over her previous boyfriend (also first sex partner, another one of those big deals) and said she just was not in love with me. That changed when I moved away, then she moved further away but we "stayed friends." We visited each other and then there was no problem with it. She was really glad I came to see her as no one else she "loved and missed" came to visit her.
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