Eep-- I was in this same kinda situation. And I'd built this "orgasm" thing up up and up, until it was supposed to be something earthshattering. I never had one the whole time I was with the ex and never could give myself one.. then all that changed with the lurkbastids. Now I can almost think myself there (almost, dammit). And it's not at all what I thought it would be. I mean, it's fucking amazing but if I was waiting for what I thought I should be doing/having, I'd never be happy.
Give her a glass of wine, a good vibrator, and help her play; when she gets to the "too much good" phase, back off a bit. If she's like me, that's one frustrated chickie... once she gets there she may bring the damn house down.
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