Thank you for your response! It is not my goal to upset him or make our lives difficult...which it has tremendously! I don't know if it's just me or what, but when I read your post, I felt relief! I honestly feel like there is no normal shirt (other than a turtleneck/sweater/tshirt) that is not going to gape and show my bra! I don't want him to feel like I don't care but not only do I feel like it is impossible, I'm so stressed out and sick of talking about it (and so is he) that now it's like AAAHHHH!! We went shopping in a mall two weekends ago and was near tears b/c everything I picked out he looked at it like...boob shirt (meaning will show off boobs) ... I wasn't picking out skanky stuff...that's just how it is these days I guess. It is super frustrating and we are BOTH ready to find a solution and get on with it!
Im just your average girl...
and me, personally view myself as a pretty conservative girl...who just grew up around too many men! LOL ugh!