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Originally Posted by tecoyah
Advice #1- Relax, and just have a fun night. Just hang out together, rather than "Go on a Date" if that helps.
Advice #2- Be forthright if he seems to just want some nookie. Seriously, any guy worth his Boxers will take a comment like " I really just want to have fun, and not deal with the whole sex thing tonight" for what it is...honest communication. Any guy who simply does not get it, is not worth the second "Date" anyway.
Advice #3- Stick to your Guns. If I don't respect you, then all you are is a place to park the Car for the night. Neither of us really want that if you have chosen the guy well.
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Sultana, you're over-thinking this. Do what Tec said, plus, make a suggestion for the first date. Go someplace where you can just sit and talk for a while to get to know one another. Going on one date doesn't mean you're automatically committed to this person, so if there's something about them that you wouldn't want (clingy, psycho, etc.) you'll find out easier, plus there won't be any added pressure since it'll be in a more laid back setting (like at a coffee shop or something like that).