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Advice #1- Relax, and just have a fun night. Just hang out together, rather than "Go on a Date" if that helps.
Advice #2- Be forthright if he seems to just want some nookie. Seriously, any guy worth his Boxers will take a comment like " I really just want to have fun, and not deal with the whole sex thing tonight" for what it is...honest communication. Any guy who simply does not get it, is not worth the second "Date" anyway.
Advice #3- Stick to your Guns. If I don't respect you, then all you are is a place to park the Car for the night. Neither of us really want that if you have chosen the guy well.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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