Originally Posted by Impetuous1

I don't know where you would get that from other than an attempt to be flippant. But no, I wouldn't be attracted to you. My post just referred to my opinion that I'm not usually attracted to guys who are "being nice" and trying to be "my friend" in a rather transparently desperate attempt to get in my pants. They are based on my experiences of several years. My current boyfriend who I've been living with for about six years did not try to do things for me so that he could be my friend. He was upfront about his interest in me. I like and respect a man with backbone who can admit his reasons and intentions upfront instead of being false and cowardly. But that's just me.