I'll admit to having not read the entire thread here. In regards to the specific problem, if you're concerned about it, you might try actually mentioning it to your crotch doctor and see what comes up.
I also find myself wondering at all these 'tell him to get used to it.' If the gender roles were reversed (ie, a woman who didn't like the smells/tastes associated with her man's crotchbat) and the guys were doling out that advice, what would the reaction be?
Me, I say that if he doesn't like it you should learn to live without it instead of trying to force him. Sex is not equal exchange and you should go down on him because you want to, not because you expect him to return the favour. There's plenty of other ways for him to get you off.
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