I agree with MrFriendly. I've always hated guys who are nice to me who are doing so in the hopes I'll suddenly rip my clothes off and ask them to fuck me. Like the bus driver who gave me a free ride and stared at me the whole ride through. The guy who gave me free ice cream. The guy who ran after me for two blocks to ask me out. Desperateness is definitely not attractive. But then, I think that the only reason most men would be nice to me at all is because they want sex. Which may be wrong sometimes but is usually right. So I never let men fall into the "friend trap". I guess I subscribe to the notion that men and women cannot just be friends.
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