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Originally Posted by sphynx
Meh, I think I have kind of gotten over it, moreso because of something that happened last night. She basically got plastered at our house, called over some random dude ...wasn't even my best friend who i had suspected as i said before....and slept with him. I think this just verifies my conclusion that she's a slut and that fixating on her this much as you guys have said is not worth my time or energy.
I'm kind of glad it happened actually, wierd enough, I guess because it gives me a good excuse to stop dwelling on her soo much. I in general, and i know this may seem biased for the circumstances...but I don't have too much respect at all for drunken floosies who screw random dudes..that was just a big turn off i guess.
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OK, now, normally I hear that anger seeping through and I get happy because it's a step towards getting over things. But in this case I have to say.. DUDE, WTF? Ok, this is not some psycho cunt who used you and cheated on you. This is your best fucking friend, who when you talk to about your feelings, did something not enough women do and was honest with you from the fucking get go. Could it be things are falling aprat with you because you keep thinking shit like that? Hum? You thik it, you act it. You are playing the hurt angry puppy and chances are things are going to shit with the two of you because YOU keep acting like a dick, not because of what she is doing. Fucking hell man, your in college. That is what people do in college. They learn shit, and they party it up and sleep with people they find attractive. You not calling her a slut because she banged some guy she knows from class, but because that man isn't you. They way you are acting here is WAY out of fucking line. If someone wrongs you, I will be the first person in line behind you telling you what kind o crazy fucking shit you can do to fuck them up in return. Eye for an eye is not enough for me, but this case dude, YOU are the one stepping out of line. You need to check your head right now. Could it be the reason she isn't attracted to you is because of shit like this right here? I think it might just be. I STRONGLY recommend you take some time to just go sit in a dark corner way the hell away from her, REALLY think about how things have played out, and then beg her to forgive you for being an asshat. She was nothing but honest with you, and you go and pull shit like this? Dude, fucked up. grow a pair, get over yourself, and spend some time making sure she knows you are really really sorry for the way you've been acting if you want to save this friendship. And if you don't want to, just make damn sure you realize you are the one that caused it to go down in flames, not her.
See what you did damnit? You went and made me take her side. I'll never feel clean again.