Stop. Just stop.
It's none of your business. Are they fucking? Aren't they? It doesn't matter. You're not sleeping with her. You're not going to be sleeping with her at any point in the near future. Therefore, it's none of your business whatsoever who she does or does not have sex with. Maybe it's just a cuddle buddy type of thing, or maybe it's purely physical or maybe it's something more. If you want to be friends with this girl again (I'm personally not convinced you do, but for the sake of argument) you have to just. Stop. Caring. They're both adults and are entitled to make these decisions for themselves, regardless of what you think. They're also entitled to their privacy.
Be honest now; when you walked in there, you knew (or at least suspected) that he was in there with her. That wasn't some innocent question. You wanted to know what's up. That's how it reads to me, and if I'm right then I'm not sure there's much more I can say on the subject. If you really think it's that important to know then just ask them, but be prepared if you do. If my roommate (when I had one) started prying into my sex life, I'd probably tell them to mind their own damn business.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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