sphynx

Hey guys, I'm new to this forum, but I've been reading up on some of the threads on this site and it seems a lot of you have some pretty sound advice. Sooo..heres the dealio...its rather complicated ...so I'll just start with the basics. Basically, I live with a roomate whos a chick, ima guy, and we've been best friends since middle school. I've kinda gotten used to the fact that guys will hit on her and the like, she pretty hot, but the other day one of our mutual best friends (this kid we've both known also since middle school...we're currently all juniors in college..just a side note) came over and slept with her. Now I don't know if its just jealousy on my part because she's never done that with me before or what, but hes been commin over and sleeping in her bed for three days now. Its kinda wierding me out, especially since neither of them are telling me anything about, not that they really have to, but you'd think if two of your best friends were doing something like that they'd tell you. On a side note, both me and the dude she is sleeping with have had crushes on her in the past, mine was more in the recent past...but I dunno, I guess I'm just feeling wierd that all this is happening..and that they're being so sneaky about it...anyone been in a similar situation? Me and her used to be really close, and we've had kind of a falling out after i told her how I felt about her....maybe shes just seeking the same intimacy we used to have in another close friend? Its soo f'ed up ..egh