I feel sorry for those men who would feel ashamed and embarrassed (or think they'd be) if they admitted they were raped by another man. Do you think you would be mocked, and/or ashamed of yourself? If you were mocked by anyone, why should you care? Those who would do such a thing are disgusting people. A woman being raped is just as painful and humiliating for the victim, and yet there are many more women (though not enough) who come out with it. If you don't think you'd reveal it to authorities, you really should ask yourself "why" and what you can do to fix some of the internal conflicts you have going on.
On another note, there have been a number of young men recently reporting that other men forcibly gave them a blow job while they were drunk/asleep. One accused rapist is a college football player, at least that's what I think I read last night. To be honest, I think that things aren't black/white even with something like rape. If someone else was clearly drunk and did something like that to me while I was asleep... I'd have to take other things into account if I thought they were really a threat to myself again or other people. I don't think being drunk is an excuse (nor any other drug), however. It's complicated. I've been taken advantage of myself and there were situations I wish I had reported, but I didn't believe at the time that they would be taken seriously by authorities.
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