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Originally Posted by Rococo
I've already discussed this problem with my girlfriend and she says she understands but to just not tell her if I do anything and to be safe. But I know she'd be devastated if...
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Obviously there will be no more poking of strange snatch for either of us, brother. I'm in the same boat. Your girl loves you to the point of understanding your need enough to let you go if it's more important to you than she is. Tell her you've come up with a better idea.
Ask her how she'd feel if instead of sleeping with other women, you close your eyes and imagine she's someone else? Maybe you can call her by another name. Maybe she can wear a costume. Maybe you can set up little scenarios in the evenings where she's the teacher and you're the naughty student, or where you're the plumber coming by to give her pipes a good cleaning.
If she's really committed to helping you steer clear of other women's panties, the options here are limitless.
By the way, about the threesome... the only way I see that working for you is if your girl brings home someone she wants to hook up with that has met you. You're probably not going to find anyone that will turn on your at least slightly nervous girlfriend unless you look in specific places or are VERY lucky.
Good luck, man. Turning off my little head's brain/radar around the strange is going to be really hard, I mean difficult.