This is to the first post:
Well, obviously you have the desire. Make sure it's not dominating your life, and you're perfectly OK. Hell, I've done thirty in one week then none for a month, it all depends. Just make sure it's not an excuse for healthier things.
What I did is take my love of porn and dirty stories and used it to my advantage: I trained myself to hold back, to stop just before the inevitable, to learn to control myself. I also went to sexuality.org and read everything I could on how to please a woman sexually. So my fist sexual encounter, I lasted a few hours, and actually got her to orgasm with my mouth.
Again, use the drive for the forces of good, young Jedi, and may the force be with you.
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