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I would retry anything. Because sometimes a lover is more considerate or experienced with something. I've gone out with women who HATED oral sex, giving or receiving. Giving, because prior guys insisted on grabbing their heads and thrusting, receiving because the guys were either horrible or it just didn't feel right.

Now though, the one loves giving head, it gives her a feeling of power, but she didn't ever thing to be aggressive. If a guy tries to thrust, she initiates the nutlock. If he doesn't, he has a good time. The other had her first ever orgasm while I was giving her face, and has loved it ever since. She now knows that she can TELL a guy what she likes and what she doesn't.

On the receiving end, my wife likes to bite, and occasional smacking/choking. I've been subjected to these before, and neither appealed to me. But she kept asking, and accepted feedback (too hard, not there, a little up, etc) and was willing to listen, and seeing how turned on it gets her, I started to like it. Now, I quite like a little roughness.

So, I suppose my opinion is this: If your partner is loving and considerate, and listens well, and is willing to put a little research and effort into it, always keep an open mind. Because what is bad with one person could be marvelous with another.

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