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Originally Posted by Vitter
Let's say you have a personality that was unique, that many people liked to befriend, but did not want to have a relationship with; would it be wrong to change your personality in order to get a person to like you? Keep in mind I'm referring to a short-term relationship. I couldn't stand being in a long-term relationship if I didn't be myself.
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Why would you want to be in any kind of relationship with somebody who can't appreciate you for who you are? Unless by "short-term relationship" you mean a one night stand. In any other sort of relationship deception will most likely lead to nothing but a bitter end and a burned bridge.
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Originally Posted by Vitter
If your argument is that one should not change their personality no matter who it is, so that there is no deception, then should a rude person not hide the fact that they are rude(keep it on his inside)? Wouldn't the rude person want to not have people egging/tp'ing his house?
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I can relate with this statement as I am not necessarily a rude person, but I do tend to be a very vulgar and obnoxious person. There are times in life, due to the society we live in, where you have to give off a different persona. eg. Chances are if I were to tell a girl I work with I would like to spit in her vagina, as I would a girl in my personal life (Yes, I am a smooth operator), I would be unemployed, to say the least.
Basically, in professional and casual interactions it is usually wise to remain polite and stick to the social norm of how people should act. When it comes to your personal life and the interactions therein, though, I believe you should always be the person you truly are. Otherwise, you will have false relationships with everybody you know, and who wants that?