I think to add some reasonableness to the discussion one needs to consider age and marital status.
Ex: A single, 35 yo female. College educated, working. She has had fully 17 years of legal time to have sex. Say 3 guys a year in college, and 2 a year since then. (These are not unreasonable numbers for a normal heterosexual woman in our society.) By my count that is 38. If a female posted here...'38'...most of you would think-slut, whore, sorostitute
. And actually, any number up to 50 I would consider pretty normal for a well-adjusted person.
And just to be fair, the number for a guy would reasonably be about the same,................ unless we are going to start counting farm animals......then all bets are off