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Originally Posted by ASU2003
Not if I can't control my thoughts about their previous partners, what happened in their relationship, why did it not work, am I good enough...?
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Well, to be honest, that has everything to do with you, and nothing to do with them. Get a hold of your insecurity, because in my opinion, that's not the kind of base you want to build a relationship on. You want to build it on mutual trust and respect for the other person and his/her past experiences, not how you "measure up" to that past. That's maturity--being confident enough in yourself and what you're worth to not get hung up on how you compare to the last dude.