abaya

Well, to be honest, that has everything to do with you, and nothing to do with them. Get a hold of your insecurity, because in my opinion, that's not the kind of base you want to build a relationship on. You want to build it on mutual trust and respect for the other person and his/her past experiences, not how you "measure up" to that past. That's maturity--being confident enough in yourself and what you're worth to not get hung up on how you compare to the last dude.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran