abaya: I took your advice. oi... really. I've been acting overly emotionally lately. It's just I have these dreams about her, and when I wake up, I feel like I lost her, fresh again. Does that make sense? it's hard to describe. But yeah. I never poured my heart out to her and haven't tried to win her back.
joeyaz: Same boat. Definitely made a "how to ask a girl out" thread a while back. So everything you've posted about seems familiar. Yeah, I'm trying to stay busy. Giving my friends and family way more time than I used to. And that has been good.
ironpham: I wish i was able to not get all bent out of shape over a breakup. That'd be cool
inBOIL: Yeah... I still can't decide if a rebound will be the best idea. I'm watching from the sidelines as my ex is falling head over heels for this new guy ... and it seems so rushed. and so forced. During our relatinoship, I always felt like she loved having a boyfriend, more than she loved me. I can see that in the way she's acting now too. I suppose I'm quite biased, but still.
evilbeefchan: "ego always trumps rationale. " when you put it that way, it makes a lot of sense. yeah. also, I guess I've been acting like an overly emotional ... non-man. Seriously. I'm trying to snap out of it. Actually, recently I've been doing a lot better.
So nothing much has been happening these days.
I've been spending a looot more time with my friends and that has been such a great help. And I'm really starting to think I'm actually for sure over her. Just hope I can stay that way.
Thanks TFP!