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Originally Posted by mrachel2
but i do not want to ruin our relation of 15 years,
half of me thinks "it is only sex" and realy it is only sex....
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I have a quick question. Do you want it to be "only sex" with your husband?
I am not going to state what I have or have not done. But I will warn that, for some people, once you separate sex into only a physical act with no emotions, something akin to a backrub, it is hard to reverse that. You can accidentally sever a special connection you already have with someone, and it can be damn near impossible to get that back. And you give up and move on, it can take years before you can connect emotionally with anyone new, sex or no sex.
This is obviously not true with everyone. But something for you to consider.