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Originally Posted by soma
Question: How stupid would it be for me to meet up with her and pour my heart out to her and try to win her back.
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You have to ask yourself why you want her back so bad. If experience has taught me anything, it's more that the guy can't get over the fact that she's out with someone else. It's the brutal truth. This is the major flaw of being human; ego always trumps rationale.
Let's put it this way. By pouring your heart out to her, you're basically trying to get her to feel sorry for you. Do you really want a relationship based on this?? I hate to spew cliches, but BE A MAN. Concentrate on improving your body and mind. Girls aren't attracted to guys who obsess over their ex's. I totally agree with inBOIL, don't start another relationship until you're completely over her. Not saying you can't date, hang out, or simply talk to girls. Just make sure you know why this relationship didn't work, before you embark on another one.
Work out to get out your aggression. Concentrate on your priorities (school, work, etc). This is the kind of experience that usually devastates a person, which is why you need to concentrate on strengthening yourself. Girls are attracted to a guy with strong character. Someone who has something going on in their lives; be it their job, their hobbies, their passions, whatever. And make sure your friends are there for you. (Also make sure you know your friends' track records before taking their advice)
I'm only 23, but I will tell you that you're too young to be obsessing over this particular girl. There are just too many beautiful, sexy and smart women out there to pass up. They're waiting for you.