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Originally Posted by Crompsin
I understand. Makes you feel like a piece of meat, makes you feel hollow, makes you feel like you're not all that into the life purpose that everybody else seems to be crusading hardcore. Turns out everybody feels like that.
How we mostly play victim to ourselves. How do you think guys feel when they realize that they're "under par" in comparison to their peers? Sucks to be the retard who can't get a number, let alone any kind of physical intimacy.
Do we make it difficult or is it just innately difficult?
You might say that woman are being treated as sex objects... but what does that say for men? What title and persona am I supposed to assume to be desirable? How can I make myself worthy enough to utilize you as a sex object? Is this the game? I suppose it is. Too much bullshit.
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I wish I was still married. That made life easier. Happy to be stuck to another person fo-eva.
I don't at all regret the hot-hot antelope sex with various women that weren't my type, though. The feel of their moist skin on mine as I slept through those nights helped me survive those years without caving to the insanity of physical desire. The beating of the heart, the hand on my chest... that shit was real and while you might be able to buy it, you can't fake it.
Hot-hot consensual badger-style crotch-slamming with someone who needed a fix of carnal humanity, too.
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This is a very nice post, Crompsin, thanks.
But it doesn't make me feel like a piece of meat. I'll be absolutely honest, though, and tell you that it makes me feel hesitant to share certain things about myself here. But I don't feel victimized by it. It's not possible to victimize me. I make my own choices and I deal with those myself. I'm not about to start taking on the consequences of the actions of others. I will stand up and say what I think is right on the behalf of others, though.
I think it kind of sucks to feel inadequate and incapable under any circumstances, but 99% of the time those feelings are manifested and perpetuated with the self. That goes for men and women. And games and role-playing are eventually nothing but lies. Maybe you get that temporary gratification that you're looking for with them, but in the end it will always be meaningless. And then what happens when you actually meet someone that you really like and you are pretending to be someone you're not? I don't see the point or the benefit in going to such extents for casual sex. I would think it would be more economical, mentally and otherwise, to hire a prostitute.
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Originally Posted by Crompsin
 Some of the guys here on this board do it at least half a dozen times a day, I'd reckon. Orgasm isn't the fix. |
Then maybe you are looking for more than just casual sex.