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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
As long as you persist in this attitude, the longer you will keep running into the situations that cause your attitude to persist.
You blame it on women. But you have no one to blame but yourselves.
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You quoted me / men for blaming women? I'm at a loss. Why? We don't blame anybody. We might stereotype or dehumanize the carnal spearing, but we don't blame women for anything. Do explain.
I had placed
casual in italics for a reason. It is the category of sex discussed here. This entire thread has to do with casual sex and "standards" related to it. I didn't wanna piss off anybody but I suppose anything that introduces a self-serving gender bias will stir the pot and put a stick up an ass or two. Not that sticks are a bad thing either, as long as it is consensual.
C'mon, MM... work with me here.
Casual encounters with people outside your normal target area. The sex where last names aren't really that important in comparison to the hands on your hips, the breath on your neck. Novelty over quality. The sex based on a quick spark of interest and a too-small dorm bed or futon. Just do them because they are there. The sex where the physical need outweighs the physical appearance and where the only connection that matters is the connection with the erection. The sex where you don't care about this person as a viable option for the future, that you don't think about how they keep their sock drawer organized or if they wash their hands after they pee. The kind of rabid badger monkey sex that is good for right now, needs to happen immediately, and has an unwritten expiration date that involves a sunrise.
(shrugs)
I haven't had sex in well over a year. Blame anybody? Not at all.
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Ergh, except maybe my barber. Shitty haircuts at times.