Well, go to
www.squirt.org
And follow the steps to see if your gym in your town is a local cruising spot for gay guys. You'd be surprised.
Maybe there's even a post or two about YOU.
"Yeah, there was this really cute twink down at the club the other day, he's hung long. I was sending him the signals by drying off my ball sack for 10 minutes while he was in the shower, but he just didn't seem to get the message"