I for one am glad guys can READ the things we post. I mean honestly they don't know us personally so they can't associate a story with a face. All they get is an idea of how some woman somewhere is thinking and they get to see how it may or may not differ from their own view. Think of this forum as an unsensored women's column in a newspaper. A smart guy will see it as an opportunity to learn even if it just as a spectator. An even smarter guy will take what he learns and use it to improve a relationship with a girl he actually knows. This goes for all of our topics from sex tips to chick flicks to just how damn cool we are
BTW I don't hold anything back when I write simply because the risk of typing your thoughts and sending them over an unsecure phone line through countless servers and systems is about as private as yelling out who your secret crush is during a school assembly and hoping nobody heard you. More people than you can dream of have access to everything you say over the internet. So why censor your thoughts for a few guys "lurking" our lounge?